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You were thought of in the mind of your Creator before the world came into existence. Before atoms and molecules were spoken into being there was a reason for creating you. Before the movement of this planet, or the touch of the sun and moon upon our orbiting world your Creator knew of a time when you would arrive. You were thought of before the painting was on the canvas, or the ingredients of the Universe were mixed together in a pageantry of colour and harmony. Before the advent of time there was, in the mystery of eternity, a plan to create mankind. There was a plan to create beings able to partake in all the wonder and beauty of this world, and also reach beyond it to fullness of life with their creator. Yes, before mountains and valleys were shaped and moulded, or the orderliness of seasons was set in place there was a decision made in eternity. There was a decision made to create a being, able to benefit from the love of another. You are special, you are unique, you are noticed; you were created to be loved and to love.
“Every man, woman, and child has a powerful need to be valuable and worthwhile, but as we have seen, the world-view under which most individuals live, has no special basis for assigning a high value to man; if man is just the product of an impersonal universe, from where does his value come?”
Prof C. Evans in ‘Existentialism and the Quest for Hope’, p58.
Now think of an egg – a human egg – a human fertilised egg – not visible to the naked eye. Just stop and think about it for a moment. This fertilised egg contains all the genetic information for the most complex computer in the Universe – the human brain. You are fearfully and wonderfully made and so much more. You are body and soul-spirit, birthed into existence for a life, which was made to partake both physically and spiritually. You are special, and you have a heavenly Father who wants to share His life with you.
You are an awesome creation. Encoded within that miniscule fertilised egg which we have briefly been considering, is all the information for cells, organs, bones and the mile upon mile of blood vessels that make up our human frame. Each cell within your body is like a perfectly designed hustling, bustling small city of activity. You are awesomely designed. You are no accident; you were created to be noticed. You are not just one amongst billions of clones; you are unique and were made to know the love of your creator.
Someone out there knows all about us. He watches over us and wants to be known by us. But due to separation from our true environment, we are unable to see clearly with our mind and heart. Despite having such awesome senses with which to engage with creation, we struggle over our identity. Even though our eyes are so amazingly created, our minds have become clouded. We do not see as we should be seeing, and we are restless beings, far from home.
“The human eye has 107,000,000 cells. Seven million are cones, each loaded to fire of a message to the brain when a few photons of light cross them. Cones give us the full band of colour awareness and because of them we can easily distinguish a thousand shades of colour. The other hundred-million cells are rods, backup cells for use in low light. When only rods are operating we do not see colour (as on a moonlit night when everything looks in shades of grey), but we can distinguish a spectrum of light so bright that the brightest light I perceive is a billion times brighter than the dimmest.”
Dr P Brand in ‘Fearfully and Wonderfully Made, p 23-24
The search
Mankind is often like a child that is lost. We are all so preoccupied with what we think we need to be doing. Why do we struggle so much? Why are we so restless? Do we have the real blueprint of life to work with?
People are looking for help but are so often left with little more than an emotional fix. The ‘help’ they receive often tarnishes and wears out before time has marched on for even a handful of days. They are not being given the real blueprint of life.
People scramble through the highs and lows of an increasingly fragmented society. Fellow human beings are seen as competitors and, within families, loved-ones become strangers. We strive to build and succeed, yet often end up with only ruins. At times we can appear so powerful, however, in reality we are struggling. We deny the spiritual aspect of our lives, and we live as if the here and now is all there is.
Meanwhile, across all age groups there are many who end up addicted to substances and a multiplicity of brief encounters as they look for the fast hit, the ultimate high. Even those who have found worldly success and recognition struggle with lack of fulfilment as if something is missing. We exist in fragmented lives, amidst the crumbling walls of the world we have built, and on the rare occasions when we slow down, we look for guidance – but where?
We look for guidance in the market place of life: in religion, psychology, the New Age and untold so-called ‘spiritual courses’ – but who are we, and where are we going?
If we are honest, there are occasions when we are too scared to stop and take a close look at ourselves. Instead we allow the roller coaster of life to hold our attention, and often fail before we have travelled very far. We rush through life like a person hurrying to eat a carefully prepared meal. We do not enjoy the subtle flavours; we are not fulfilled. We have an existence, yet are suffering; achieving, yet still empty; having friends, yet still lonely; building homes, yet inwardly restless. We are not rooted, or established; there is no intertwining of physical and spiritual. We are seeds planted in the wrong soil – the soil of our own thinking. But just as a small children was never meant to be on their own, so too we were not meant to be left on our own. How can we grow? How can we mature? How can we flourish? How can we find inner peace and harmony, wholeness and healing? Why do we suffer – perhaps something is wrong? Perhaps there is a spiritual side to our lives, and we need to engage with our Creator.
You are a human being. You are both physical and spiritual. You are body, soul/spirit. Your body is not the product of impersonal forces, and soul-spirit is not to be seen as if it were no more than an early-morning mist floating over the river. Neither is it like the cloud-like fog of an autumn day that softens the world for a brief moment in time. Spirit has substance, and speaks of the power of life. Spirit speaks of thoughts, feelings, will and development. It speaks of where ‘me’ resides amidst the chaos of the world, and was birthed along with the fabric of my being with the ability to reach out to another, far beyond the realms of time. You were created to know, to feel, to reach out, and to connect with the author of all life.
More Than Physical
You are a unique person, and personality – where ‘me,’ (the person that I am), resides – was created to know and develop, to feed and grow in wisdom knowledge and understanding. You were created to reach out of yourself; to connect with others.
But we struggle; we fall at the first hurdle and the words of others often cripple the life we seek to nurture. We fire on three cylinders; we live on a diet of inadequacies and half painted pictures. We are often unaware of the real blueprint of life, and of the Creator who wishes to lift us from mere existence so we can connect with real life in all its fullness. Our thinking is confused, imposed upon, ridiculed and challenged. We live for the opinions of others, or strive towards artificial goals that often leave us feeling useless and labelled as worthless.
Whose blueprint for life do we live by? Do we realise that when thinking is wrong, so too are our feelings and actions? Imagine a friend walking into a meeting and wrongly assuming that others in the room had been talking about them. Imagine how they might feel. Imagine how they might act. Can we see how wrong thinking, (assuming others had been talking about them), can lead to wrong feelings and actions?
You are not a sophisticated animal that has fought its way up the struggling heap of evolutionary ‘development’. You are human, awesomely and wonderfully made, the pinnacle of this creation. But by whose blueprint do you live?
You were not created to function on a purely physical plane, nor created to function according to artificial standards imposed by others. You are not something to be tinkered with or fixed and improved upon. You are not something for others to manipulate or distort with their words and actions which leave you confused, unsure of who you are, and thinking life has just passed you by. You are not simply a bunch of chemicals – you are body and soul-spirit; awesomely and wonderfully made.
Unlike an animal, you have the capacity to learn from the past. Animals cannot learn from the experiences of past generations. For example, a horse cannot tell another horse, “Watch out for that man over there. My grandfather had a really tough time with him, and I know how to deal with the situation.” Unlike animals, you can keep a record of past events, and learn from previous generations. But what if some of the things we have learned are not right? Where does that leave us? Perhaps you have been hurt and damaged by the past? Perhaps you have had power and success, but still feel a void deep within? Maybe a new day is about to dawn.
You, along with your fellow man have the capacity to think about the goal and purpose of your existence. You can make voluntary decisions to improve yourself; an animal cannot do this. In the animal kingdom there may be radical change when, for example, a caterpillar turns into a butterfly, but this change is not something that the caterpillar does voluntarily. The caterpillar cannot say, “I’m not going to change into a butterfly because I don’t like heights.”
Unlike an animal you have the capacity to voluntarily seek to change, to move away from what you have become and into fullness of life. But who has the right map to follow? How many of us are aware of a Person (our creator) who is willing to reach into the tangled web of our lives, with the power to lift us out of the pain of just existing? There is someone out there who knows you, and who wants to be known by you. You are special. You were not created simply to exist like a small blade of grass in the corner of an overgrown garden that no one ever visits.
Do you realise that, when compared to the animal kingdom, you alone can be considered to be free? Animals are completely under the domination of their body and cannot make a free choice. For example, no animal can decide, “I’m going to run a mile a day in order to lose weight.” The ability to deny a bodily desire is unique to human beings. When an animal denies a bodily desire, such as hunger, it is simply doing so because of fear of retribution. For example a hungry dog will not approach a carcass whilst a lion is present. It’s not a case that the dog sees the carcass as the lion’s property, or assumes it is morally wrong to steal. It is simply the case of knowing that if it attempts to eat the carcass whilst the lion is present, it will be killed. There is no real choice in the matter. But it is different for you. You can choose to say “no” to something simply because it is morally wrong. There is such a thing as absolute truth – some things are always going to be right; others will always be wrong.
“When is suppression of desire uniquely human? When there is no possibility of detection and retribution, yet the person suppresses a desire and restrains himself only because it is morally and ethically wrong. This is something which animals cannot do.” Rabbi Tverski.
Body and Soul-Spirit
In the beginning, when time had just been taken out of its wrapping; when the world was still like a fresh spring flower stretching forth from the ground, man was created. When all was fresh and new, like the first golden rays of sunlight bathing a beautiful summer’s day washed by the dew of early morning, a man was brought forth from the dust of the ground. Spirit was breathed upon dust and man became a living person – body and soul-spirit. The heart began to pump; lungs drew in fresh air. Eyes were opened and touched with myriads of colours; sounds were heard, cool air was felt. Muscles were stretched, life was experienced and a world was given in love to the first human being.
You are a person – you are body and soul-spirit, yet these are not to be seen as separate entities. Spirit impacted flesh and man became a living soul – a person – not one among many, but unique. Think of a picture – you don’t look at the individual colours, but that which those colours reveal. Think of a cake – you don’t think of the separate ingredients – the cake is the whole. You are not a body with a soul-spirit floating about inside you. You are not trapped inside yourself – you are one, and you are unique.
“Man is not now a soul and then again a body. Man is a single being, a self, an ‘I’ or a ‘you’. Scientifically man’s integrated nature becomes apparent in the study of emotions. The individual receives a message from a loved one or bad news, or he tells a lie. Automatically, in normal circumstances, his heart beats faster or slower, his breathing amplitude and rate change, adrenalin may be discharged into the blood stream. These and other events are then spoken of as psychosomatic. But man remains one being.”
At the beginning of time, when spirit was breathed into the dust of the ground, man was created. Man became a soul-spirit. Body speaks of being able to engage with creation – it speaks of that which is the vehicle of sense consciousness. Soul-spirit speaks of self-consciousness, and our ability to think and interact with those around us – not seeing others as competitors but participators in life. The spiritual aspect of a person speaks of the strength and power of life and ability to know, think and interact with God our Creator. But man made wrong choices, and is fallen and separated from the heavenly Father.
We think we know what is best, and in doing so, continually miss the mark of our high calling. We live out our own ideas, and in doing so, ignore the food of life. We are out in the cold and unable to experience the love of our heavenly Father. We do not benefit from the wisdom, knowledge and understanding from above. We need to come home, yet do not know that there is a home waiting for us. Our damaged minds and the attitudes that others foster on us can sometimes make it difficult for us to receive the real help that we need.
If I don’t drink water I will suffer the consequences; if I do not eat, I will soon go hungry. If I sowed mustard seeds, I cannot expect daffodils to grow in their place. Our actions separate us from God; they make us His enemy and there is a price to pay.
Ultimately it is God alone who has the right to judge our lives since He has the original blueprint. The world is like a flower plucked from the garden. The world is like a child that has run away from home and reaping the consequences of doing so. The ultimate fruit of this futile existence is separation from our heavenly Father. Yet a message has been going forth from the beginning of time and a life has been given so that we can come home. Love always seeks to reach out to a loved one: are we willing to take the hand that is offered? Are we willing to see things a different way?
Thousands of years ago, when a man called Job began to think he knew the answers to life, his heavenly Father challenged him with these words:
“Where were you when I laid the earth’s foundation? Tell me, if you understand. Who marked off its dimensions? Surely you know! Who stretched a measuring line across it? On what were its footings set, or who laid its cornerstone— while the morning stars sang together and all the angels shouted for joy? “Who shut up the sea behind doors when it burst forth from the womb, when I made the clouds its garment and wrapped it in thick darkness, when I fixed limits for it and set its doors and bars in place, when I said, ‘This far you may come and no farther; here is where your proud waves halt’? “Have you ever given orders to the morning, or shown the dawn its place, that it might take the earth by the edges and shake the wicked out of it? The earth takes shape like clay under a seal; its features stand out like those of a garment. The wicked are denied their light, and their upraised arm is broken. “Have you journeyed to the springs of the sea or walked in the recesses of the deep? Job 38:4-16
We are restless and hurting. We are like a plant pulled from the ground and placed in water. For a while we look the same – yet we are not as was intended by our heavenly Father. “As for man, his days are like grass, he flourishes like a flower of the field; the wind blows over it and it is gone, and its place remembers it no more.” (Ps 103:15-16). But it does not have to be this way. When you embrace the offer of life given by the Son of God the secret wound we hide within can be healed.
A Personal Experience
My knowledge and experience within the field of psychotherapy, cellular-healing and spiritual teachings, taught me a lot about others and myself. Whilst on my ten-year journey in search for the meaning of life, I found myself mixed up with all sorts of weird and wonderful people (and a few dubious character along the way). Most of them were well meaning and offered all sorts of therapies and healing techniques. This often encouraged and gave hope to people for self-healing. What really intrigued me in all of this was that the healing process could be achieved within self, supposedly with the help of spirit-guides and guru’s. This world of mysticism was quite seductive, but it did not really convince me.
They danger of relying on yourself and others to fix a problem (whether it is physical or emotional), is that it can cause more harm than good, especially if you are in desperate need to find a cure. The vulnerable are often preyed upon by the many cults and the New Age who, at times, promise healing from everything from life threatening illnesses to emotional problems. However if you thinking is unhealthy, or you are even slightly depressed, there is the real danger that you can become over analytical and more confused than ever.
When we have been living lives that are damaged and distorted, we can feel as if we are running on a hamster’s wheel and never really getting anywhere, despite apparent changes.
Sadly, many people spend thousands of pounds and lots of time and energy looking for the reasons why they feel the way they do. I am not saying that none of what they find is helpful, but the danger is that our search can put us on our own path to self-destruction. In searching for reasons for our behaviour or illness we can become self-obsessed. We can also end up blaming others and pushing away those we love, causing unnecessary heartache to many.
Whilst I was at counselling college I remember a fellow student saying that her husband had commented on how distant and ‘I’ orientated she had become. “Where has the ‘we’ gone in this relationship?” he asked her. He then suggested that a book be written for the partners of anyone taking such a course, on how to support them
In my quest to find myself I became selfish; but I just didn’t see it at the time. This is because I was desperate to change and did not want to stay a victim to past events. Therapy, self-help books, and spiritual teachings tell us that we have to think in the ‘I’. I must come first; I must not be co-dependent. Only then can I be a fully functioning human being. Unfortunately this is the illusion that traps many people into believing that they can have true freedom. In reality they are really entering into a fantasy world of airy-fairy seduction and lies.
Have you ever thought about dependency? It seems to be one of the main words in the counselling vocabulary today. People are told time and time again not to rely upon family and friends and to simply become independent. It’s as if we are brought up to trust in some of the people around us and then suddenly we’ve got to go it alone. Yet all this does is simply add to the pressure, since we are struggling in the first place, and are now left, more than ever, with only ourselves.
In many ways we are dependent on each other. A child is bought up to feel safe and depend on his or her parents. Then, all of a sudden, when they reach a certain age they are expected to become an adult and be instantly independent. Yet, as we all know, it takes time to adjust and learn skills for coping with life and getting through each day.
The Bible teaches us that we are God’s children, created for a relationship with Him. We were not made to be totally independent, but live in a loving relationship with our heavenly Father.
When I started to find out about Christianity I realised I’d been searching for God in the all the wrong places, and had thought of God as some sort of energy and nothing more. It was after trying so many different avenues that in desperation I turned to the Bible. To my surprise I found Christianity to be very different from my ideas of old-fashioned buildings, legalism and do-gooders. Instead I found the truth: I found Jesus Christ – or rather He found me.
Jesus is the One who showed me what forgiveness and unconditional love was really all about. He did not come to me out of sorrow or pity, but came to give me life and fill the emptiness in my heart. He came to bring me back to my true home.
My search was over when I found such perfect love in Jesus. It is a love that transcends worldly love – it is a love that has no limits. In Jesus I found someone who loves and accepts me for who I am. I did not have to fight to prove that I was worthy of His love, and through Jesus I found forgiveness and reconciliation; I found freedom and absolute truth. He is the only Saviour that anyone will ever need.
The Cosmic Saviour Who Stoops Low – My Friend
In Jesus we see what God is like, because in Jesus we see God stooping low so that we can understand Him. I was made to know Him. I was not made to go it alone. I was not made to look within myself for the answer to my problems, but to look away from myself to Jesus. He is the author of life and it is Jesus who fed my heart and mind and refashioned my thinking. In doing so I did not lose my identity, but only what I had become. With His help and guidance, I, along with so many others, have been able to develop true spirituality. Through Him personalities can become strong and powerful, overcoming difficulty and knowing healing in areas that are so often self-destructive.
In Jesus we see One who hated the outward pretence of man-made religion. In Jesus we see One who walked in perfect unity with His heavenly Father – who interrelated both physically and spiritually. In Him we do not see a religious freak, ghost or guru that is out to exploit us. In Jesus we see great power and authority revealed in such love, gentleness and compassion. In Him we find One who challenges us to the very core of our being – One who asks us to lay down the existence of what we have become, and know forgiveness and life in Him.
Jesus mixed with all people regardless of class and upbringing. He was a man filled with a passion and desire to do His father’s will. Jesus was always willing to share His life with the downtrodden and the outcasts of society. He also reached out to the powerful, rich and successful; for all men can be restless, frustrated and lonely; no matter the outward trappings.
Jesus loved people and was prepared to meet with them at a deep and personal level. He met the needs of Nicodemus, a ruler amongst the Jews (John 3:1-21), and He met the needs of a Centurion regarded as a thorn in the side by many (Mark 8:1-13).
On one occasion, Jesus reached out to a tax collector caught up in wrong trading. He did not condone the man’s actions; neither did He condemn him. The impact of His actions and words entered the heart of the tax collector and his chains fell away as he became free. In most societies when someone does something wrong, they are remembered for it. Sometimes, when a friend falls out with a friend, it is simply a few misplaced words spoken over a handful of minutes that have caused it to happen. All the good times are forgotten – the laughter, the fun, the sharing – the years of being together. All that is now seen is that little handful of minutes – the person has been ‘forgotten.’ Jesus is not like this. Whether it was the enemies of Israel, the woman caught in adultery or the thief on the cross, Jesus saw the whole person. He saw people in need and was willing to offer all people forgiveness through Him. He came to live the life we could not live, and pay the price that we could not pay.
Throughout the New Testament we see Jesus interacting easily with people at any level, enjoying their company and sharing Himself with them. The only time He was away from people was to have times in prayer with His heavenly Father.
Jesus came against the religious leaders of His day, and on one occasion cleansed the temple by throwing out those who exploited and profited from the lives of others. In doing so the barren, empty temple, once more became a place of vitality and life, “the blind and the lame came to him at the temple, and he healed them” (Matt 21:12-14). Jesus is the only One who can bring life into our hearts and minds, for He alone is the author of life.
On one occasion a friend of Jesus, ‘John the Baptist’, was in prison and finding it difficult. He had told many people about Jesus but was now wondering if Jesus really was God stooping low. He sent some of his own disciples to talk to Jesus. Jesus did not rebuke John. Nor did Jesus moan at him, or challenge him to stand firm. Instead He sent back a picture that would have thrown down John’s walls of doubt. Jesus said, “Go back and report to John what you hear and see: The blind receive sight, the lame walk, those who have leprosy are cured, the deaf hear, the dead are raised, and the good news is preached to the poor.” (Mat 11:4-5). That’s the sort of person Jesus is. He seeks to encourage and lift up. He seeks to heal, not to harm people.
Jesus did not condemn the disciples when they walked the dusty roads of their own thinking, through lack of understanding and familiarity of old ways. Instead in His love, power and a compassion that was breathtaking to behold, He opened their eyes and engaged their minds with the knowledge of life.
No one exercised such authority as Jesus did. His authority from on high was such that He could calm the storm (Matthew 4:39), reach through death to raise Jairus’ daughter (Luke 7:11f) and by His word the tissues of the leper’s body were brought back into fullness of health. In Him we see the Master of Life going about His business. He did not come to condemn, but to save. Jesus came to suffer and die; yet death could not hold Him.
Jesus was whipped and beaten beyond recognition, and a crown of thorns was stuck on His head. Crowds mocked and looked on with hearts set against a man who had done nothing wrong. Yet not one thought of malice, hatred or vengeance could be found in His heart. Jesus had chosen to withhold His glory and power for a season, yet the events around Him could not overcome the Servant King. He came so that we could find forgiveness. He came with the offer of life. He came so that we could find the way home.
There was a thief on the cross next to Jesus. He had ignored the rules of society and certainly turned his back on God. To those viewing the crucifixion he was nothing but a parasite, someone getting his just deserts. But Jesus did not write him off, as millions of others would have done.
The thief was a desperate and vulnerable man who, in undergoing the first pains of crucifixion was bereft of all hope. All doors were closed; all avenues of escape were blocked. He had been found out and death was on the horizon. The thief dealt with his frustration and pain by joining the crowd in tormenting Jesus, yet something about Jesus broke through the thickening mist of bitterness and suffering. He heard the words of the Suffering King as He spoke to His heavenly Father. He heard an abused and beaten man say, “Father forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” (Luke 23:34), and his mind broke free from the chains of despair. The thief cried out, “remember me when you come into your kingdom” and Jesus replied, “today you will be with me in paradise” (Luke 23:39-43).
Even in the weakness of the flesh and horrific circumstances that would destroy any other man, we see the power and love of God shining through His Son at Calvary.
God’s nature and character is pure and unsoiled. It is not tainted by evil and is far greater than our sense of perfection. He sees all the evil and wrongdoing in our world and will bring about His righteous judgement one day. But there is hope, for at present His hand is still extended to all who would take it through Jesus. He wants us to come home and only He can bring us to our true position in Him.
Each and every one of us is special to and loved by God. Yet not all of us can benefit from that love because we are still far from home. God hates some of the things we have done, but through Jesus we can find forgiveness. He knows how to put things right. He knows how to feed, nurture, encourage and uplift us. This does not mean that it will always be easy – but it will be life.
Despite the tragedy there is hope, despite the pain there can be healing. Despite fragmented lives, there can be wholeness – but only through Jesus Christ and the empowering presence of the Holy Spirit.
“If anyone loves me, he will obey my teaching. My Father will love him, and we will come to him and make our home with him…The Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things.” John 14:23,26.
Spirituality
In the Bible we see what spirituality really is: it is full humanity, and full humanity speaks of an ever-deepening relationship with our heavenly Father.
According to our heavenly Father we are not as we should be. We have become separated from God through taking our lives into our own hands, and we often end up suffering the consequences of our actions and those of others around us. But there is hope. Our Creator has entered the dusty realms of this beautiful, yet struggling world. Through His Son, Jesus Christ, and by the Holy Spirit we can find our true home with our heavenly Father.
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